Wednesday, March 17, 2010

We go together like PB&J


So the other day my hubby said maybe the cutest thing ever to me. He told me that every morning when he make the pb&j's for our lunches, that after he's done he looks to see which one is the better sandwich...the one he would want, and then gives that one to me. Awwwee, my heart melted right there. Such a little thing but it just totally sums up my guy. He's awesome, he's my best friend, and we just go together...like perfectly, if that makes sense. And I feel lucky every single day that he's mine!

For starters, he's not technically a morning person...but does deal better in the am than I do. So hubby gets up every morning, does his morning routine, feeds the pups, makes our lunches, comes back up and gets me up...sometimes he literally has to drag me out of bed (I shower at night so I can just brush my teeth and go), and I come downstairs and he lays everything I might need by my purse because my brain usually isn't functioning, since I woke up about 5 min. ago. He's amazing, he does this every morning and never complains! If the roles were reversed I know I would be bitching every day!

Hubby is also incredibly hard working, it amazes me how much effort he puts into his job. Most nights he doesn't get home until 7, and then he works most of the night on his laptop...not every night thankfully...but he puts in a lot of hours. The hard work has most certainly paid off, as he was just recently promoted and was the youngest person to reach this particular level so quickly. And while he enjoys his job, I know a big driving force is him wanting to be able to support me, and hopefully one day our future family.

And on top of all this, he's just the nicest guy you've ever met and would literally do anything for anyone. I mean he went to the frickin premiere of s.ex in the c.ity with me, even though I was seeing it three days later with the girls...need I say more? And all of these things just make it that much harder every month when we get a BFN. This guy is seriously meant to be a daddy, you should see him with our dogs. When Bella had surgery he worked from home the whole week and sat by her side all day every day. He's patient, and understanding, and is so excited about creating this amazing life for our future family. He so deserves it, which is why every month not only does it break my heart we aren't pregnant, but that I can't give this to him.

As we head to the next step of this journey I know he'll continue to be the amazing supportive hubby he's been so far. Dealing with IF takes a toll on the hubby sometimes in a very different way than for us...and I'm sure a lot of guys out there would not be so willing to deal with all the bs that goes along with fertility treatments, but luckily I got one who is. And I value that immensely. He'll give me every single shot without batting an eye, and will do everything in his power to make this process as easy on me as possible. And all I can hope is that at the end of this we finally get that BFP, because I'm frickin dying to have this man's babies!!

So I just want to say thank you, for being there, being my rock, remaining optimistic at the times I no longer can, and reminding me every day just how lucky I really am. Love you baby.

***Oh, and just to clarify my RE isn't Dr. Kaplan (G&B's RE), mine just works in the same practice as him!

25 comments:

The Millers said...

Awww...I just have to say you two are such a beautiful couple! Your DH sounds amazing and I think you are both very lucky to have each other!

sienna said...

sounds like you have a keeper there!! LOVE the pb&j story. i might have to *test* hubby to see what he would do and it better be what your hubby does!!

you're gonna have dh's babies *really soon*. it's getting closer and closer, so hang in there :o)

Al said...

You guys are so cute together and will make great parents. I'm glad you have each other through this journey - he's a lucky guy, too :-)

Katie said...

Awwww, this is such a cute post! (I'm so glad I'm not the only one whose hubby makes her lunches in the morning.) You two really do go together like PB&J! And I hope you both become parents VERY soon, because you'll make excellent ones. :)

Just Me...C said...

Such a cute story! You have a great hubby and you two are seriously precious together. I hope there will soon be a baby to add to the mix!

Secret Sloper said...

That's the sweetest thing ever. Having an amazing DH is so important in times like this. I know what you mean, about seeing what an amazing daddy he'll be and wanting to give that to him so much. But you will! I've got lots of hope for you with this IVF.

You two are just cuter than peaches.

Browniris said...

Your hubby sounds like a sweetheart! I am glad that you have someone who is so supportive!

Pre-Heated Oven said...

What a cute post! You guys WILL have your BFP, I know it! Your husband is amazing -- aren't we such lucky girls to have men that'll do anything for us :)

Crossed Fingers said...

Aw he does sound like a total sweetheart. Congrats on finding one of the good ones! :)

Patrish said...

Too sweet! Your hubby sounds like a great guy. I'm glad you have all his support. Sounds like he'll be a great daddy!

Dear Diary said...

awwww you guys are soooo cute, you made me cry with this post. We are sooooo blessed to have such amazing husbands. I could not go through this without my husband's support and love. You will get that BFP that you want so bad! I hope you see Giuliana and Bill lol

Amanda said...

Wow!! He went to Sex and the City with you!! My DH is pretty awesome....but he went to Indiana Jones while I went to the Sex in the City Movie.. That was one thing I couldnt get him to do.
Sounds like you have a keeper!

suchagoodegg said...

You guys are adorable and I love what an awesome team you make. Cuteness!

Jessica said...

You guys are so cute!! Isn't it great to have such a wonderful hubby!!

lowfatlady said...

AW :) Your hubby sounds like a sweet guy.

Stefanie Blakely said...

What a precious, precious post.

JC said...

Awe, you guys are so cute and that is so sweet!!! The pb&j thing is the cutest ever.

Andrea said...

Hey Cutie :)

Okay, so Hubby's a ROCK STAR! PB&J and packing your lunch, need I say more...he's a dream come true. I live with a little Sunshine Hubby as well and am ever so grateful.

Never doubt for two seconds that your dreams will not come to fruition, as I BELIEVE they will :) You have the WILL and DESIRE for this to happen and that is more than half the battle. I'm confident in your future and see only good things on the horizon.

Continue to enjoy this wonderful "man of a blessing"...

Many Hugs
Andrea
PS I always laugh, as we are so similar!

Kim said...

Such a cute couple, I adore you both!!!! Such a nice post, I see why your such a great pair, so giving and grateful, both of you. I wish for you a BFP very soon!!!You are going to make beautifule babies.
xoxoxoxoxox
Kim

Ashley said...

Aww such a sweet post!! :)

A said...

Adorable! Isn't it wonderful to have a great hubby?! I'm praying that all of us beginning ivf right now will be blown away by God's blessings through it!!!

Chelle said...

I love posts like this. They prove that your marriage is strong enough to handle what IF throws at it and reaffirms that you truly did find the most perfect man, and you are in the most perfect relationship that will stand the test of time. What a blessing.

Your hubbie sounds like an incredible man. You are very blessed to be in each other's lives.

I pray that you get your BFP soon. You both totally deserve it!

Hannah said...

Love this post! Wow, what a sweetheart! So glad you and your DH go together so well! Your photo is so cute. And I understand, when my husband is extra sweet it makes me feel worse about the BFN too!

Shanny said...

Awww I'm smiling from ear to ear! He sounds wonderful, I'm glad you have him to support you and to share your life with. PB&J couple, I love it!

Heather said...

Awwww...you're going to do great! You really will...

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